On Wish Lists and Interests...

Recently, someone who regularly visits my Fetlife page and sends pretty things from my wish list to me reached out to inquire about some of my choices.

"I have known you for years!" he exclaimed. "I didn't know you were into XYZ!"

He's perfectly right. My interests rarely change. 

As of late, I have been extremely busy creating my private library. I love collecting knowledge and being able to share my knowledge with others and learn new things. Every convention I go to, I carefully scrutinize their workshop and class offerings. If there are no classes listed for a specific time block that I am very much interested in attending, I choose the most uncomfortable (for me personally) class to attend. 

For example, there were many amazing classes in Dallas for Beyond Vanilla. There were blocks that I had no interest in. A wonderful educator by the name of Ignixia and her boy Shawn taught a class I was extremely excited to take on decorative cutting. The next block of classes I was not particularly drawn to. Despite my fear of medical play (from the cancer treatments), Ignixia and Shawn encouraged me to stay.

I attended the class and learned a lot about medical play, especially the "mind fuck" techniques used which can be applied to a variety of different scenes. I decided right then that maybe medical play was something I would enjoy doing.

I digress... Regardless of whether or not I am interested in a particular fetish, I do believe that books and literature about those topics should be preserved.

We are currently in a state of affairs with our President Trump...in which people like us may be discriminated against, persecuted or worse. Hopefully the next few years will fly by and we will be able to continue to practice our kinks that do not involve lack of consent, children or animals.

In the meantime, literature regarding our kinks, lives and practices need to be preserved. So...by adding them to my Wishlist, I hope that people interested in those fetishes and topics may gift me with the books, therefore providing knowledge and extending my private library so these works may survive a Purge that may or may not come.

Some of you may think I'm being crazy but book burnings and murders of educated individuals have been scattered throughout history...and history repeats itself. Use the Google Machine on your own time to find more examples and evidence of this, for I am far too busy.

I challenge you all to do the same. Expand your knowledge, your understanding and skill sets to teach others. Yes, it makes you a target, but if you are doing it right...you already are. Dodge the bullets, preserve the precious pages, pass on the skills, morals and ethics and we MIGHT survive the next 3 years.

In the meantime, help me build my library or better yet...build your own. 

The Importance of Names

I wrote this little piece over 4 years ago on Fetlife entitled My Name Is...

Jinx. Not Michelle. Not Sharon. Not Cassie. Not Alice. Not Deborah. Jinx.
I do not care if you know me out in the "real" world by another name.
I do not care who told you my name was _______.
I do not care if ____ or _________ call me by another name.
You are to call me Jinx because I introduced myself to you as such.
Don't ask other people for my alternative names. If I trust you and like you enough, it will come out in time. If not, then clearly I do not think you are worthy of knowing another facet of my being.
You are not to tell others my alternative name(s).
I go by Jinx.
I am LUCK, both good and bad.
I am no longer "the sea of bitterness" or "the one of the sea" who fell for the "god of wine and revelry."
I am Jinx.
I am "luck" and my "beloved" is the "giant-killer."
You have your chosen name(s). I have mine. Please call me by my name.
If the boot fits, lace it up and wear it.
Jinx

Here is yet another piece on the importance of names I wrote also around 4 years ago entitled So I'm waiting you might say...waiting for the JINX and trying not to feel too lucky.

Jinx
n.

• A type of curse placed on a person that makes them prey to many minor misfortunes and other forms of bad luck;
• A person afflicted with a similar curse, who, while not directly subject to a series of misfortunes, seems to attract them to anyone in his vicinity.
• An object or person that brings bad luck.
• A penalty that one person can invoke on another when the two of them say the same thing at the same time.

tr.v. jinxed, jinx·ing, jinx·es

• To bring bad luck to.

[Possibly from jynx, wryneck (from its use in witchcraft), from Latin iynx, from Greek iunx, perhaps from iuzein, to call, cry.]

After I've introduced myself, I've had a number of people (both kinky and vanilla) look at me with reactions that vary from shock, disbelief, to mild confusion. Similar reactions are seen when someone else points, "Oh, her? Yeah, that's Jinx." Yes, my name is Jinx. Yes, I do know what the word means. I am quite aware of the history and the negative connotation carried with it.
Furthermore, it is ME. I have horrid luck. I always have. Is it a matter of belief? NO.
My family has a theory that my biological dad insulted a witch and she cursed him. They believe the curse (or jinx) bounced off of him and hit me when I was very young. Since he had that altercation with that woman, my luck has been horrible...ranging from various injuries and medical issues to bad situations. Is this what happened? Maybe. Maybe not. My family jokes about me being jinxed. It used to bother me...a lot. Now I see it for what it is.
Maybe I did something really bad in a past life because I really cannot think of anything I have done to bring this on myself in my current life.
In conclusion, do not think I chose my name lightly. You may use your given name or one you chose for yourself. I don't judge you or ask you in a condescending tone if you know what YOUR name means. Don't treat me as if I am uneducated because my name historically describes something negative. For years, I believed it was negative. Now I have embraced it because despite everything, no matter what I want to believe, it is ME.
Life has its ups and downs. All I can do is smile and carry on. It can't rain all the time.

Here is some backstory.
As many of you know, I am currently considering a full time dynamic with Rowan. If you would like to look up the significance of his name, use the Google Machine. Oh...it also helps if you spell it correctly. Here, I even took the time to do it for you.

So...fast forward to this evening.
I had gone out to dinner with some friends and my boy. During dinner, one person in particular kept calling Rowan by his vanilla name. There are several reasons that Rowan does not use his vanilla name within the community. If you ask nicely, he might even tell you. He may also tell you to mind your business.
Anyways, after several polite corrections from Rowan himself and a few from me, this person still was not using the correct name to address my boy.
Our entire group left to attend a social event following dinner. Soon after arrival, Rowan quietly pulled this person aside and explained that his name was "a treasured gift given to me by my Lady." He also added that this person should look up his name and what it means, so that he may understand why it was important. This person replied, "Okay, I'm sorry. I will look it up."
At that point, we thought the conversation was over.
Boy were we wrong!
I was walking past the two of them and this person pulled me aside to apologize. "I'm sorry for calling Rowan by his real name." I visibly stiffened and through gritted teeth, accepted his apology.
Why were you upset? You, my reader may ask.
I was upset for a variety of reasons:

• Rowan's name was chosen for him by ME. He loves his name and it isn't a private pet name. 
• My boy was getting visibly upset upon being called by his vanilla name.
• After several polite corrections, the behavior was not changing.
• Only after my boy took this person aside did anything change.

...but this person apologized. You may argue.

This is what I found lacking in this person's "apology":

• This person apologized for calling Rowan by his "real name". Rowan is my boy's real name...just like Jinx is my real name and exactly like Myobi was once my real name (now a dead name).

I'm going to go on a little side path here so follow me if you will.

There are few people left now that knew me once as Myobi. If any of you are familiar with the manga Alichino, you may know of this creature. She grants wishes in exchange for feasting upon the wisher's soul. Her name literally means "beautiful darkness". She loathes others like her and enjoys fighting them. She serves one man and him alone. I know some of you reading this who knew me as Myobi are chuckling right now...but I digress. My Master chose my name. When I was released upon completing my training, my collar was gone along with that name.
It was a huge change but the transformation following that relationship was for the best.

Let's take another trip.

Many of you know that I am Ms. Corazon Leather 2016. I had the privilege of judging the Corazon Leather Contest 2017. I was sitting in the Judge's room among a few fine people and interviewing our lovely contestants. 

One particular contestant's explanation to a difficult question came swimming into my memory. Curio Lecter had written in its contestant packet that it only had one name and not to ever bring up its other name because that name was a "dead name". This was a term I had not heard before. I questioned it about the term. Through tears, it explained that a dead name is attached to a being or an aspect of a person's life that no longer is in existence. This "entity" has passed on. Curio told the panel its birth name and explained that because it had found itself, that name did not fit it, much like body parts do not fit a person trapped in a wrong body.

For example, if you refer to a trans-man (or woman or intersex or gender fluid or gender non-binary, etc. person) by their birth name and they have chosen a new name, you are dead-naming them. It is very disrespectful, harmful and demeaning to an individual to take their choice (which does not harm YOU, I may add) and dismiss it as though their preference and sense of self are nothing. 

This concept also applies to pronouns. 

So...if you or someone you know is dead-naming someone or not respecting that person's preferred pronouns, here is what to do:

1. Correct them (or correct yourself).
Example: "Excuse me, but I believe ______'s preferred pronoun/name is ______." OR "Oops. I mean ____, not _____."

2. Apologize for dead-naming them or not respecting their preferred pronouns.
Example: "I am very sorry for the name slip and will do my best to remedy that." OR "I apologize for not using your preferred pronouns."

3. Move on but continue to make the corrections in future conversations.
Example: Use their preferred name or pronouns from that point on.


If you do not know their preferred name or pronouns, just ASK. Better safe than sorry.

If you do not understand, they may explain it to you if they feel like it. If they feel they do not owe you an explanation or do not want to discuss it, respect that.

One more thing...if you want to know something about a person, often their name will tell you a lot.

Names are special. Hell...If you know a demon's name, legend says you can control it...if you believe such things of course. Throughout history, names have been of utmost importance. Google it some time. I will not do it for you this time.

Have a great day and respect your fellow beings!

What a Weekend...

Woooooooooow.

What a fucking weekend.

As many of you know, this past weekend was the Leather Bear and Cub Contest with Special Guest Mama Reinhardt at Sidewinders Bar. I am so proud of the Albuquerque Leather Community for showing Mama that we are amazing! We got to show her that despite all of the little subgroups we have, we come together for things bigger than our own self interests. It was amazing to see our many groups represented: The Leather Daddies, AboL, TNG, Mama's Family, Duke City Deaf and Hard of Hearing, AEL, ClubFEM, MasT, etc. Forgive me if I spaced listing more. There were sooo many!

Thank you to the amazing judges that came out to pick the 2017 Leather Bear and 2017 Leather cub Titleholders.
Thank you to the contestants who each brought your A-game and made the decision tough.
Thank you to Sidewinders Bar for hosting this contest and giving us a space to call home.
Thank you Michael and Renato for being so open and kind to our community.

The weekend was crazy.

Friday night, I showed up to Sides to meet my 3 Leather brothers. I met Mama briefly and my mother called... My estranged Godmother was flying in from Texas tonight and it would mean a lot if I came to catch up.

Let's back up to about 1999...I know...nearly a decade ago. My mama moved my brother and I up North from Las Cruces and we lost contact with my Godmother Julie. My mama and Julie were best friends in college. We had helped her move out of her husband's place shortly before leaving town.

They vowed to keep in touch...but Julie vanished. My mother was devastated. We sent letter after letter...called everyone we knew...sent emails...called the last place she worked at...nothing proved fruitful.

Fast forward to 2009... I was in high school and everyone was transferring from MySpace to Facebook. I switched over and started a new page called "Find Julie ____________". We had many people "like" the page and share the posts and pictures that I had posted there. We paid search sites for information. We sent letters, made phone calls, and sent emails. Nothing.
We became quite discouraged...and eventually stopped trying to find her. It was as if the wind carried my Godmother away.

Someone saw the picture on Facebook of Julie and recognized her immediately. This person contacted me with Julie's ex-husband's information, meaning well but unintentionally driving the point home that he could be found but she could not...

Here we are on a Friday night and my mama is calling me telling me that she found my God mother through one of those paid information sites and she is flying in TONIGHT. I absolutely could not pass this up as my Godmother and I would not be available to catch up any other night.
I politely excused myself from Mama and Sidewinders and went to a restaurant near the base. I walked through the door and my little brother immediately yelled my Vanilla name.
I walked over to the table and my mama hugged me first. She was crying but I was busy looking over her shoulder at the short grey-haired lady standing behind her with my father. My mum let me go and this strangely unknown yet familiar woman embraced me.
We all sat down and talked for about an hour before my parents took my Godmother to their home.

Following my family visit, I then went to Soch to see a benefit show and enjoy cigars indoors with one of my brothers and boy in consideration. Little did I know that this night would be the first step down into a rabbit hole I was not prepared for.

While I will not go into detail as the story has been told so many times, I should have been more aware that what happened Friday evening would escalate come Sunday night.

Shaken and upset, I arrived at my house in the wee hours of the morning, got no sleep and went back to the grind only hours later.

After work, I attended the Leather Bear and Cub contest at Sidewinders. The Leather Daddies were very generous to grant me a few minutes on stage to pin in our newly patched Corazon Leather titleholders: Curio Lecter and TytheGentleman, which followed the tradition from last year when my titlespouse and I were pinned in. During that small ceremony, I also informed them not to worry because I personally funded their patches with the hope that they would fund the patches of their successors.

A few boys were also patched in to AboL which one of my brothers announced. All in all, we showed Mama how diverse yet united our community is.

Congratulations to our Leather Bear Tim and Leather Cub boy Andy! I know that the two of you will represent New Mexico well.

Following the contest, a number of community members were called into the back bar and pinned in to Mama's Family, including my brother boi Dani. During that ceremony, Sir Adrian proposed to his boy and I caught some amazing pictures of the event. Mama was laughing and crying.

My boy in consideration and I stayed at Sidewinders for a while after. We were laughing, drinking, conversing and having a great time when Sir Adrian called me over to where he and Mama were sitting. Mama was whispering to him for a few minutes before turning to me and asking me to be part of her family. I began to cry, hyperventilate and laugh because I was in shock. I accepted.

Now I anxiously await to hear what name has been chosen for me.

Sunday, I spent serving my community with the Babes and Bullies. We educate people on responsible ownership of bully-type dogs and raise money for shelters and rescues across the Land of Entrapment.

Sunday night, I went to the Wet Munch, stayed through the education portion that I host and set up, and then went back to Sidewinders to perform in a show with a new piece in addition to an old favorite. I performed my old favorite piece.

My Leather Family decided to meet up at Sides and chaos ensued.

I missed my debut piece and walked away from Sidewinders with 2 brothers instead of 3, my boy in consideration, a fuck ton of fear, questions and mistrust.



Now we wait.

BDSM PRIDE PARTY

Come on out to the Clubhouse to celebrate our 2017 CorazonTitleholders Ty the Gentleman and Curio Lecter with special guests Ms. Corazon Leather 2016 Jinx the Lynx and Ms. Corazon Leather 2016 Ninjetkitty (unconfirmed).

We hope to see you there for a night of delicious foods and fun!

So You Want To Be a Titleholder... Part 1

So you want (or think you want) to be a Titleholder.
Here are some tips from your friendly neighborhood titleholding Lynx Jinx.

1. Be yourself...to a degree.
Now that you are in the spotlight, be aware that anything and everything will be brought to light. People may not always remember everything you have done for them, but they will remember the one thing you fucked up.

2. Stay humble.
Remember where you came from and who helped you along the way. They will be there for you long after your title year is up.

3. Be honest.
Tell the truth...whether is is regarding where you turned in your receipts for travel reimbursement, or whether or not you are the single titleholder for the year. Always be honest.

4. Hold your tongue.
Life isn't fair...so why should contests and title years be any different? Bite back the words until the opportune time. A title isn't about saying everything you want to say... It is about saying what you want at the right time to the right people and making a difference.

5. Stay cool, calm, and collected.
Think before you speak and act. If you scream and yell about every thing, no one will hear you.

6. Acknowledge your title-spouse(s).
You were chosen to represent the entire community...so were your title-spouses. We are all here to help you and be helped in return. Announce that you are one of (whatever number). Know and say their names. They can make or break you during (or after) your year.

7. Seek the truth.
Before acting or speaking, know the truth. Talk to multiple sources. Most times, things are not always as they appear. In any given situation, there are always at least three sides...one side, the other side and what really happened.

8. People suck.
They will promise you the moon but give you a stick...maybe. They will try to take credit for your work. Don't let them.

9. Work hard.
If the year is easy for you, you're doing it wrong. This is hard work and don't believe anyone who tells you otherwise. Bust your ass. This is YOUR LEGACY. Make it something to be proud of.

10. Ask for help.
Your community wants to support you. Ask them for help. Ask for resources. Ask for input. They are the people you are representing. Ask them what THEY want.

Leather Bear and Cub Contest with Special Guest Mama

Reminder!

Come to Sidewinders Albuquerque for the New Mexico Leather Bear / Leather Cub Contest for some fun with our leather community and with special guest judge, Mama’s Family, Sandy Reinhardt will be at all events.
Friday November 3rd, 2017 will feature the contestant Meet & Greet, 7-9 p.m., no cover at Sidewinders.   Saturday November 4th will include entertainment and show for the public at 8 p.m.  This event is part of the Leather Daddys Gear Night at Sidewinders.  There will be a $5 cover, $20 VIP food-drinks-seating that includes a reception with Mama.

This Contest and Weekend are arranged to be fun and entertaining to people involved in the Leather,Bear, Fetish and BDSM communities. The Weekend is full of events to provide a true Leather experience to the participants. The titleholder will provide information, support and community service around Albuquerque as well as at local, statewide and national events.

For last-minute entries that are residents of New Mexico, the New Mexico Leather Bear and cub Contest is open to anyone who is involved in the Bear, Leather, Fetish and/or BDSM communities. The winners are chosen based on many criterion, which are listed below. The Contest provides a venue that allows all participating leather/kink/BDSM folks to present a positive leather image.  Check out the leatherdaddys.org website for more information.

I hope to see you there!

Kindest Regards,
Jinx

FREAKY FRIDAY WITH PEARL NOIRE

Come out and see me and many other great performers Friday October 13th!

Furnace Fundraiser Update

We were able to fix the furnace and provide financial aid to this family that has helped our community for years. We made enough money for the furnace, duct work, parts, and other odds and ends to make them comfortable and even had money left over to give to them in their time of need.There was enough funds raised by the amazing community of New Mexico that we were able to cover all costs and then some.
I was able to give the family the full amount raised for the raffle alone (amounting to just under $400) and the rest was paid for out of the remaining monies. 

I would like to personally thank everyone for helping me pull this together. I could not have done it without your help. We came together as a community to help a family that has supported our community for years. Thank you everyone who shared the event, bought raffle tickets, donated raffle items, showed up for the party, donated time and effort, pledged money and labor, and SPECIAL THANKS to the NM Clubhouse! I could not be more humbled by this experience and I am proud to serve the State of New Mexico as Ms. Corazon Leather 2016!

Education at the Wet Munch 6-18-17

Tonights topic: 'Frida Miles' on "Confessions of a Predator"

For over fifteen years, Frida was part of the sex industry, and become an authority in the art of seduction for profit. In the early 2000s, Frida joined the NM Fetish community and has since presented for local, regional, and national conferences addressing issues of gender, sex, sexuality, class, body autonomy, and race. "Confession of a Predator" allows community members to address the fact that predators are everywhere and everyone has the potential of being- or becoming predatory. The workshop covers the following:
What is a predator?
Who is a predator?
Why was I a Predator?
How was I a Predator?
What do 'We' as a community do to perpetuate a safe space for predators?
What can be done to prevent such behavior?
This workshop is designed to help community members recognize predators and predatory behavior. This workshop is not designed to be a form of individual or group therapy. While this will be a safe and welcoming space the nature of the workshop could be troublesome for some people. Please be aware of your stimuli and triggers.

Spring Fling

Saturday June 3rd doors open at 4:30, classes start at 5, raffle at 8, play party starts at 8:30.
10$ per person and a potluck item. If you cannot afford this event, please still come- contact Master Bear at bigdykebear@yahoo.com for a scholarship!!!!
Classes start at 5.
YOUR choices are:
From 5-6:30PM
Lap dancing with Corazon Leather 2016 Ninjetkitty
OR
Electricity/Tens with Roughhouse

From 6:45-8PM
Decorative Needle Play with shelbysue
OR
Fireplay with WhipDaddy

FEATURING:
Dani the bootblack
HANDS ON DM training
AND your favorite VENDORS!
Including: a table for littles, rope, and custom made anything!
Raffle at 8pm!
PLAY PARTY starts at 8:30- whenever!
Contact Master Bear on fetlife, or at bigdykebear@yahoo.com to RSVP.

ALL PROCEEDS GO TO YOUR COMMUNITY'S GROWTH!

Education at the Sunday Wet Munch 5-21-17

Our next presenter will be Dani (ALilCuriosity) our lovely local Queer Leather boi bootblack. Dani was trained by JaysonDaBoi Ms. International Bootblack 2010 and has been blacking for a little over a year. Dani can be found blacking at Sidewinders Gear Night, Clubhouse Events and other Fetish events throughout New Mexico and Texas.
Dani is the preferred Bootblack for your current Ms. Corazon Leather Titleholders Jinx the Corazon Lynx and Ninjetkitty.
Dani can be found on Instagram

Have you ever been in your bootblack's chair and had someone come over and begin conversing with your bootblack?
Have you ever watched someone bootblack and wanted to ask questions but been brushed off?
Dani will provide insight on proper ways to approach bootblacks and cover a variety of topics including (but not limited to): general etiquette, garment care, questions to ask your bootblack, misconceptions about bootblacks, and proper negotiations to make your bootblack experience great!

Please PM me for the address for this exciting lecture!

Hypnosis Workshop

The workshop will run from 7:30-9 and attendees are free to come and go as they please.

Hypnosis Workshop with Nancy Ava Miller, MEd, CHt

AT THE PRESS CLUB

Attendees at this workshop will be guided into a deep, relaxed, hypnotic/meditative state, during which they will become in touch with their calm "inner being" -uninhibited and blissful, open to new experiences, fresh sexual insights, and unique erotic possibilities. This will be an interactive, hands-on class. In this gathering, YOU -the audience- are the "star of the show"!

Who IS Nancy Ava Miller?
In 1986 in Albuquerque, Nancy Ava Miller started one of the first S&M support groups, PEP -People Exchanging Power. Later, she traveled the land, creating other PEP organizations in DC, Tucson, Phoenix, Philadelphia. Atlanta, Baltimore, Denver, Pittsburgh, and St. Louis. Remember: This was pre World Wide Web and communion among kinksters was difficult back then! In addition, Nancy holds a Master's in Education from University of Maryland plus she taught public school in the Washington, DC area for 10 years. She is a former professional writer/photographer, now the author of Pervert: Notes from the Sexual Underground, an anthology, almanac, album, memoir, and history of her life in the sex biz, with over 101 mostly never before published photographs. In her youth, Nancy followed the Indian guru, Maharishi Mahesh Yogi, around the globe, becoming a teacher of TM-Transcendental Meditation. She is a certified clinical hypnotherapist to boot, and today remains active in her cherished BDSM community and PEP,which continues its support and love for perverts everywhere.

Find out more about Nancy Ava Miller:
www.nancyava.com
www.amazinghypnotica.com
(202) 261-6662

Dinner with International Master and slave 2017

Please join me in welcoming the current International Master and slave duo to the Duke City!

We will be meeting at Mario's from 7pm to 9:30pm during which Sir DaddyDaun and slavegirl j will address questions about running for contests, their 5 year journey, communication skills, and addressing generational gaps.

The address for the venue is 2401 San Pedro Drive NE Albuquerque, NM 87110.

As this is a vanilla venue, please dress vanilla-casual and respect the patrons.

The cost of this talk is the price of your meal, a tip for our waiter or waitress, and a suggested donation of $5 to go to the travel fund of the International Master and slave duo.

This will be a very fantastic and useful opportunity that you won't want to miss!

Please invite your friends!

Join me in giving our title holders a warm Burqueno welcome!

Special Corset.net Spring Pan Sale!

Saturday March 25th from 9am to 6pm

Corset.net will be having a huge sale at Spring Pan!
Their wares will be marked down 25%-50%!!
Now is the time to buy that corset or kimono you've been eyeballing!
This only applies to in stock wares.
No custom orders will be taken at this time.
Currently we have corsets sized between 22" waist and 44" waist.

Spring Pan is being held at the:
Sheraton Albuquerque Airport Hotel
2910 Yale Blvd. SE
Albuquerque, New Mexico 87106

Alibi Fetish Events Presents: Kinky Curiosities

Our too-hot-for-print 2017 Sex Survey results are in, and to accompanying this big reveal we're hosting an adults-only party at Sister Bar (407 Central NW). We'll be showing off some of Albuquerque's biggest fantasies, fetishes, kinks and curiosities. Live performers and demonstrations will run the gamut from leather to lace, from bondage to burlesque, from domination to drag queens. There will be information tables featuring the city's most sex-positive resources and some very naughty vendors.
21+, $10 
With: 
Femme Fatale Burlesque Cabaret
Perla Foxxx of Dirty Deeds Burlesque
Annie O'Roar
Albuquerque Leather Daddys
Albuquerque boys of Leather
Rip & Shawna
The 2016 Corazón Leather Titleholders 
DJ Kate SC
Mistress Lexianna & Her toys
Sweeny Odd
VJ Lithochasm
Cabaret Audacity
Joy Coy
and more...
hosted by Julian Addams Wolf

Part of the proceeds will benefit the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF), and they will also be tabling.

The Winning Numbers Are Here!

THE WINNING NUMBERS ARE HERE!!!

I deeply apologize for the delay. I was dealing with a family emergency.

A set of mini floggers from The January Shop Ticket #5428450

A Pussy Catcher from Firmdominant Ticket # 5428016

A set of precious wine bottle stoppers from Den-Mother Ticket #5427751

A Medium Harley Davidson Helmet from Den-Mother Ticket # 5427229

A Needle Play Basket from BtchInHeels Ticket #5428798

Two lovely canes from Wendy Ticket #5428206

A Package of AEL Kinkskills and Play Party Passes Ticket #5427416

A 1-Year Membership to SwingerLifeStyle Ticket #5428731

A Cane from Bernalillo Ticket #5428660

A Kinky Bear from GlamourPussy Ticket #5428525

A Full Face Mask from GlamourPussy Ticket #5427240

A 4-clip bondage point from Glamour Pussy Ticket #5428372

A Pink spiked collar from GlamourPussy Ticket #5427885

A Stone Pendant from Paula Ticket #5428693
A Beauty Basket from The Laughing Goddess Apothecary Ticket #5428240

A $50 Gift Certificate to Yes, Please! from cutelilcupcake Ticket #5427250

A Small Cherry Wood Paddle from Mr. Rooster Ticket #5428186

A Medium Maple Wood Paddle from Mr. Rooster Ticket #5428487

A Large Mahogany Wood Paddle with Colored Scores from Mr. Rooster Ticket # 5427355

Art from Asintouch Ticket #5428014

Framed Art from House Golden Ticket #5427234

Stash of Fetish Porn from the Clubhouse Ticket #5428500

A Maroon flogger from squeaky_toy and FaolRuadh Ticket #5428753

A Silver flogger from squeaky_toy and FaolRuadh Ticket #5428288

A copy of M/s For the Rest of Us by and from Master Bear Ticket # 5427452

A Leather Heart Paddle from House Golden Ticket Number 5427501

A Babes and Bullies Calendar from Jinx the Corazon Lynx Ticket #5428165

AND NOW -drum roll- 

The winner of the Underbust Corset is Ticket #5428378!!!!!!!

We made enough money to get the furnace covered and the duct work redone! 

I would like to personally thank everyone for helping me pull this together. I could not have done it without your help. We came together as a community to help a family that has supported our community for years. Thank you everyone who shared the event, bought raffle tickets, donated raffle items, showed up for the party, donated time and effort, pledged money and labor, and SPECIAL THANKS to the NM Clubhouse! I could not be more humbled by this experience and I am proud to serve the State of New Mexico as Ms. Corazon Leather 2016!

We Need You.

There have been questions as to why the Women's Space needs funding.

Please see Leather Bear Tails for that information. Thank you.

Jinx the Corazon Lynx

If you would like to read it here, here is is verbatim from the original blog.
"There seems to be some confusion about the fundraiser for the women’s space/titleholders on February 11^th.  What I am hearing is that people are asking is - if “they “pay for all of the space, why does the women’s space need to do a fundraiser?

So here let me help:  this last year has hit us all hard.  There have been many deaths, including a major organizer for and a major donor to NMLL. NMLL is the “they” that pays for the two major events that occur every year, Spring Pan and Leather Fiesta.  So as the people at NMLL are figuring out how to keep tickets prices from skyrocketing AND keep ALL of the amazing spaces that they provide- they are going to need a little help.

“They”   are taking a HUGE personal and financial risk by putting on these events. If the event take a loss, who do you think pays for that? The thought that the current event ticket sales cover the next event expenses is a solid thought, but not the reality of where the organizers are at the moment.

And that is where you come in. In fact, that is where we all come in. 

We are doing the fundraiser for NMLL, earmarking it for the women’s space. To be able to finically support and create a show of force for those that risk so much for us. 

Join us this upcoming Saturday.   We NEED you."

Upcoming Appearances

Upcoming Appearances by Jinx the Corazon Lynx

Come see what amazing performances we have in store for you!

Saturday February 11^th Women's Space and Titleholders Fundraiser At Sidewinders

Monday February 13^th Kinky Curiousities At Sister Bar

Saturday February 25^th At Effex for Corazon Kitty's Going Away Party

Thursday March 9^th -Monday March 13^th South Plains Leather Fest in Dallas

Friday March 24^th – Sunday March 26^th Spring Pan in Albuquerque

Saturday April 1^st Killer Kink in Albuquerque

Saturday May 6^th Leather Faire

Various social events are also on the calendar. Maybe we will cross paths. Maybe not.

“When we support each other, everyone is stronger”

PLAY PARTY FUNDRAISER! 

Friday February 3^rd from 8pm -12   at the NM Clubhouse. 

Please RSVP for the address.  
Dress code: street legal to the door

20$ per person CASH at the door and a potluck item.  

All proceeds go to the new furnace for CorsetnetLady and Her family. 

There is also a RAFFLE! 

Featuring donations from your community (including a basket from Laughing Goddess Magickal Apothecary) and the grand prize of an UNDER BUST CORSET!

We also have:

A set of mini floggers from The January Shop

A Pussy Catcher from Firmdominant

A set of precious wine bottle stoppers and a Medium Harley Davidson Helmet from Den-Mother

A Needle play basket from BtchInHeels

Two lovely canes from Wendy

A package of AEL Kinkskills and Play Party Passes

A 1-Year Membership to SwingerLifeStyle

...and soooo many other prizes!!!

Winners announced on February 6^th. You do NOT need to be present to win!

There will be a suspension demo done by a local rigger and Bootblacking by Dani! Dani will also be bringing bandanna bows for sale. 

For tickets or to RSVP to this event please contact Jinx on Fetlife under: 

mewmewbellbell

 Or through her email:   mewmewbellbell@gmail.com

This is a 21+ event, but ANYONE can buy raffle tickets!

The Corset Lady and her family have tirelessly supported this community for many many years. They have donated countless corsets as well as represented this community nationwide.  If you aren’t able to make the event, please contact Jinx for tickets! 

Women's Space and Title Holder Fundraiser

Please  love this writing so it can reach as many kinksters as possible!! Thank you!

Peace, Love and Lynx Hugs,
Jinx

Sidewinders on Saturday February 11th
8-12 PM
5$ at the door
BROUGHT to you BY:
AEL, Corazon Leather 2016 Titleholders, NMLL, TNG, Wet Munch, MAST, The Women’s Diner, Sera - your best sex dream and your nightmare cum true, and The 4 Horsemen.
WITH performances BY:
The Corazon 2016 titleholders, Sherri, Eve, Princess Gen, Alibi, Frida, Sir B, shelbysue, Sky, and MORE
FEATURING Dabbling booths of sensation for your pleasure INCLUDING:
Paddling, caning, negotiation, single tail, flogging, rope, electricity, and MORE
Bootblacking by Dani
FOR RAFFLE-
A basket by laughing goddess magickal apothecary
A whip by Alibi
Hanky pillows by Princess of the Lips
Something brilliant by Mr Zia, TEASE, Orli, and MORE

*****AND THE SPANKING BENCH********
(raffle tickets for sale at the event, winner to be drawn at Spring Pan 2017, need not be present at Spring Pan to win)
100% of the proceeds go right back into YOUR community. All proceeds will go to support the women’s space at NMLL, and the Corazon 2016 title holders in their individual pursuits.