If You Have To Ask, You Are Not Safe.

As of yesterday, I began separating my community friends from my vanilla friends on Facebook.

I post a lot of sex positive, kinky, LGBTQI...., political, and otherwise extreme shit that my family, vanilla friends and clients are not interested in seeing.

I've started adding people to my new profile which will be the Jinx you know and love VS. the old profile which encompasses my vanilla life.

I've been tagged in questionable posts recently.

I am going through a nasty divorce.

I have kids on my vanilla profile.

I have family, clients and friends on my profile who are very much vanilla.

I need to do some separating.

Life goes on and it is nothing personal.

I'm giving YOU a choice... See my sexy shit...or see my mundane muggle life. If you don't want to see my community life and what drives Jinx, then don't add the other profile.

If you are safe and prefer a muggle profile anyways, keep being yourself and we can be "muggle friends".

Hell, if you can keep things separate, we can be friends on both profiles!

I know some of you out there will not add people on your Facebook account under any circumstances. I know some of you are "out". Separating my life is something I should have done a long time ago, not only for my personal safety, but for the safety of my fellow community members who are not "out" for personal, professional or for "none of your fucking business" reasons. Some of us have things to lose...especially in this dark political time. We all have personal lives that do not revolve around our kinky and unorthodox interests. That is okay!

What isn't okay is getting offended because I've taken you off of my vanilla account and put you on my community account. When you blow up at me for protecting myself, other community members, or even you, you have just shown me you may be a threat. If you demand to know why I took you off of my vanilla account, to me...you are not safe.

If I took you off of my personal account, don't be upset. I want to promote shows I will be in but I do not want certain folks who are literally "out to get me" to see them on my vanilla profile and stalk me thanks to some "friends" who have been keeping tabs on me for people intending to do me harm.

Think before you accuse, type, post, tag, call etc.

Just stop and think.